Hacking Resistance and Desire - Part I: Release to Receive

Kara Mia
Mar 29, 2023
3 min read

Updated: Apr 26, 2024

Do you ever feel like what you want is running far and fast in the opposite direction, or as if the more you want something, the more things get in the way of attaining it?

Resistance in your mind creates a force field around your body that shields you from your deepest desires. The conscious or subconscious mentality of wanting or not wanting something alone can push or pull those desires closer or further away from you. Can you feel the swinging pendulum?

So how do you ride the wave to keep your desires flowing freely toward you?

Your ability to notice resistance lurking in the shadows reveals where negative thought patterns inhibit the flow of abundance in your health, relationships, careers, spiritual practices, etc. Without adequate flow, this toxic energy can stagnate and fall into lower, more dense frequencies, ultimately creating disease in the mind, body, and spirit.

In the last blog series, 'Silence is Golden.' I discussed (alongside other points I will expand on in upcoming posts) how your deepest desires manifest through your ability to Forgive and let go. This understanding is integral for your conscious ascension into broader states of awareness and will soften your encounters with others, including different versions of yourself.

Without full acceptance, opposition remains.

Suppose we are thinking in terms of frequency and magnetism. The key to getting out of resistance mode is acceptance. Once you have accepted where you are currently, you will have removed the resistance created by opposing your current position.

Acceptance allows us to more clearly see everything that we already have to be grateful for and illuminates areas in our lives where there is much more room for gratitude than is currently taken up. Notice the mass amount of energy that has brought you here, and be thankful for it. The simple fact that you are reading this article suggests you have some curiosity left in you, and with that you know, at least, not all hope is lost.

Once your present state has been accepted and your reasons for gratitude are identified, you can move into embodiment. Embodiment, in this context, means to conjure the feelings you anticipate having once you receive what you have desired. Explore how your best-case scenario feels through each of your senses; this will bring your awareness upward to the higher vibration of that feeling or experience, thus creating a magnetic field around you that will allow these desires to flow freely to you.

Still, this does not suggest that we are to lose our grip on our current state. The magnetization process asks you to remain present, accepting of, and gracious for where you are in this "now moment" while dreaming up the next "now moment" in its highest frequency form. This practice teaches softening into forgiveness of the past, patience for the present, and trust in the future. What I like to call "Release to Receive."

Would you say you complain about the lack of opportunity or injustice of your circumstances at any given moment more than you express gratitude for the equally present abundance? Nine times out of ten, there are more things to be grateful for in a 360-degree circle around you than there are things to spend your energy being frustrated about.

What's the saying? ...Ah!

"Where your focus goes, your energy flows."

Take time to notice if the things you DON'T want

are screaming louder to the Universe than the things you DO want.

Then, adjust accordingly.

Our 3-day mini-course on how to work with this concept and use it to create more abundance in your life will soon be available.

Hacking Resistance & Desire - A 3-day mini-course